hmm...i had these few days free to myself, so i have been giving some stuff some thought. i also had been reading books by jennifer coburn(not a lot, only 3)and since they were always on the topic of men and women, i shall....blog a little abt men and women today.

men and women mostly dun get along because they are so different. different as in, the men are reallie simple and the women are reallie complicated. examples later, but abt the "simple brain" part, i dun mean to insult. i mean it as a fact. men have simple brains. if u look up the web for...pictures of the male brain(not those from scans cos i bet u wouldn be able to interpret the diagrams) you will realise that a HUGE part of the male brain revolves around sex. so u see, with so much of the brain devoted to sex and sex only, there isnt much space left for other aspects of development, say, speech, for example. therefore, there are many men who arent very vocal. they prefer to 1)write, 2)keep stuff to themselves, 3)fight to put their point across. sounds familiar now?

in the book, Reinventing Mona by jennifer coburn, there was a part abt the difference in the way males and females think which i shall use here.

in this part of the book, Mona was rudely jolted up from her dream by a phone call from mike.

"hey, i'm sorrie, dog. i was just having a good dream and u called and woke me up. u cant blame a girl for being cranky after that"

"oh" he digested. "okay"

"okay, like okay, ure over it? or okay like, 'okay whatever? ure whacked but i dun want to get into it'? "

"is there a difference?"Mike asked.

"the difference is that one is like, 'oh okay i can understand where ure coming from and we're fine now' and the other is like, 'i dunno what ure talking abt, but i dun reallie give a damn either, so i'll say okay so we can change the topic and move onto things i actually care abt...'"

so see, this kinda shows the diff between the functions of the male and female brain. its like, when a man says okay, he reallie means okay full stop. with no further meaning or whatsoever. but women normally like to probe. women LIKE detail. they will investigate EVERYTHING down to the smallest nook and cranny of the matter. men, on the other hand, prefer the big picture, and just as long as they get the idea of whats going on, they can pretty much adapt after that and dun care for the details. therefore, lessons learnt? 1)if u want to gossip, go to a female. u'll get the FULL story 2)if ure in a rush to get things done, ask a male. dun ask a female ecause females will irritate u with all the details.

and this is probably why females are more likely to be secretaries than males. if u notice, men like replays. like...during sports events, they love to watch the replays after every goal or smth. read somewhere that this is because the men cant register whats happening fast enough so they need instant replays to jolt their memory. so, most men dun become secretaries because there are no such things as instant replays in real life. bosses dun like repeating themselves.but women happen to be the more meticulous gender. so mostly we get bored by instant replays. and thats why we make great secretaries, cos we can catch everything the first time round.

so mostly men and women dun get along, because while men likes to keep things simple, women likes things detailed. its like my sis and my brother. if i tell my brother NO, he may argue, but if i shout, he will keep silent and walk away. but if i tell my sister NO, no matter how many times and even if i shout, she will still ask me why. and when i tell her the reason, she'll probe and argue until she gets a satisfactory answer. and its also because women want to noe so much that they can become irritating and cause misunderstandings to arise. men, on the other hand, with their simple ways of thinking and handling things can cause ppl to feel that they have a heck-care attitudeand couldn be bothered by whats happening around them.

okay. this post i realised, is very messy. hahaha feel bad abt leaving the topic hanging there in the air, but nvm, its my random thoughts all spilled out in one post. there now u have the original si1 lu4 of mmm. next time i'll blog more abt other stuff. TATA

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